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Learning to Use My Intuition and Inner-Guidance System \u2013 by Rachelle Fordyce … [Photo by Jari Hyt\u00f6nen]<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

This morning I was sitting outside in our backyard enjoying breakfast and listening to an audiobook. The narrator-author had just spoken a sentence about using our inner-guidance system versus solely relying on our physical senses for guidance, and <\/em>as that sentence literally hit my ears, I observed something that perfectly summed up what the author was talking about \u2013 a perfect synchronicity, if you will.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What I saw was this: A somewhat large insect, presumably a fly or large bee, whizzed by and \u2013 bam<\/em> \u2013 flew right into the living room window! Not to be deterred, it promptly recovered, turned around, and whizzed right back the way it came.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’ve seen birds fly into windows before, and on occasion I’ve seen insects do this too. But I thought it was especially synchronistic that that would happen right as I was listening to that very sentence about navigating using our inner-guidance senses in addition to our physical (aka outer-guidance) senses. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

An Inner-Guidance System<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

What is an inner-guidance system? Basically, it refers to our intuition, our ‘gut’, our inner sense, or our feelings. It’s when we feel<\/em> or somehow know<\/em> something is right or not<\/em> right, or off (or whatever the case may be), but yet we can’t necessarily use logic or reason to explain why<\/em> or how<\/em> we feel or know this to be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although some might be drawn to write off intuition as some “woo-woo” airy-fairy thing, on some level or another, it seems to be a very real phenomenon. There are countless examples of intuition stepping in to veer people away from trouble or perhaps even guiding them towards a positive experience. I don’t think it’s logical to discount all anecdotes and personal testimonies. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The instance of the bug slamming into the window made me wonder about intuition as a guidance system. Clearly, that insect was relying solely on its physical perceptions to guide it. But our physical perceptions can misguide us from time to time. I’d imagine that insect somehow perceived the reflection on the window as equating to more sky and air and such. Birds often do the same thing too. Similarly, and under the right circumstances, humans may witnesses mirages with their physical eyes… and yet, we can’t always trust what we see.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do insects posses the ability to exercise intuition? I have no idea. I would guess not, but who really knows? Maybe some do and some don’t. Maybe it depends on the species. But either way, if that insect did have some sense of an inner-guidance system, I wonder if it might’ve kicked in and told it, “Hey, don’t fly this way! That’s not actually air and sky over there… that’s a glass surface! It’s a reflection \u2013 an illusion of sorts! Don’t go that way! It’ll just waste your time in the long run, and you might even hurt yourself!”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Learning to Trust My Intuition<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When it comes to my own intuition, I’m sure it’d serve me well to lean into trusting it a lot more than I currently do. There have been way too many instances where some tiny voice in the back of my mind wonders something, almost as if to warn me of what could<\/em> go wrong… but then the logical part of my mind takes over and says that other thought is simply paranoia, that I shouldn’t worry and just carry-on and continue as planned. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But then, somehow, of course<\/em> \u2013 it turns out that that little, tiny voice was actually right. And had I listened to it, I would’ve avoided some sort of annoyance or delay or mishap or whatever \/ fill-in-the-blank. And then<\/em>, I invariably kick myself for not having realized that that was my intuition\/inner-guidance system trying to speak up and that I should have listened to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Story Time<\/strong>: How NOT Listening To My Intuition Almost<\/em> Turned Out REALLY Badly!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Let me tell you an amusing story about intuition and the consequences of not<\/em> listening to it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A number of years ago, when Steve and I were still in the midst of our long distance relationship, we had bought tickets to see a Depeche Mode<\/em> concert together in Las Vegas. (They’re pretty much Steve’s favorite band.) We had purchased the tickets far in advance, but I had yet to purchase my travel from Canada (Winnipeg) to Vegas for the concert date. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When booking travel, I tend to book tickets that are the least cost while also being the most convenient in terms of layovers\/connecting flights, length of travel, arrival and departure times, etc. I also take into consideration the airports\/cities of connecting flights.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I had noticed that some airports’ border patrols tended to grill me a lot harder than others when going through border security, so I tended to avoid those airports if possible since I rather dislike being grilled as though my innocent travel was some impending threat to civilization. For this reason, one of my favorite departure airports for flying into the US was the Calgary airport \u2013 they rarely gave me any issues. So if I could, I’d always favor flights that had a layover in Calgary before heading to the US. That way, it was likely to cause me the least of amount stress \u2013 and less stress is a good thing! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In terms of making travel plans for the concert, I had determined my best flight would be to fly from Winnipeg to Calgary, which then had another brief stop in Denver before flying into Vegas. Sure, it was an extra stop-over, but the itinerary had my ideal Calgary departure airport heading into the US, and it would still have me arriving in Vegas 2.5 hours before the concert, which seemed like plenty enough time \u2013 especially given that I was planning to fly with only carry-on luggage. (The second-best option had me arriving sometime around midnight the night before, but Steve likes going to bed on the early side, so I thought it best to avoid that flight.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even though the flight I described above seemed like a good plan, I had a little voice in the back of my mind wonder about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Little voice: “Are you sure that flight’s a good idea? What if there’s a delay? More stop-overs equate to more possibilities for delay. I dunnnoooo…”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ego\/Logic voice: “What? It’ll be fine. I’ve never<\/em> experienced a notable delay before when traveling to Vegas, and I’ve flown a lot. So it’s super unlikely. I’ll only have carry-on baggage too, so that reduces extra time waiting for baggage arrival. Plus, I’d really<\/em> prefer to go through border security in Calgary. I think you’re being overly paranoid.” <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Little voice: “I dunno… something feels off.”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Logic voice: “It’ll be fine! 2.5 hours is plenty of time to get to the concert after arrival. Even if there was an hour delay, there’d still be enough time. Heck, even if there was a two<\/em> hour delay, there’d probably still be just enough time!! The concert isn’t far from the airport, and<\/em> it’ll be a Sunday so it’s not like there will be any rush hour traffic to worry about. …So, shut up!”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

With a little hesitation, I went ahead and booked that flight. At the time, the concert was still more than two months away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I shared my itinerary with Steve, he was concerned too. He thought maybe I should change the flight. I just told him the same thing I had previously told that little voice (minus the “shut up” part). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the travel day, everything for the first flight from Winnipeg to Calgary went smoothly. Going through security went fine. …Then, I arrived at the gate for my next flight. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

…Shit<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It turned out there was a major storm causing significant<\/em> delays. My flight was going to be delayed by several<\/em> hours. I would end up arriving after the concert. WHAT?! This kind of delay had never happened to me before in my life!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wondered if there was any<\/em> way I could get myself to Vegas in time for the concert. Then I noticed a flight to L.A. was getting ready to board and take off shortly thereafter. I guess the storm wasn’t going to affect their flight path. I did some quick thinking…I figured if I could take that flight to L.A., I should be able to land with just enough time to quickly rent a car and drive from L.A. to Las Vegas, making it to the concert right on time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I talked to an airline rep at the counter and explained to her my predicament about missing the concert if I couldn’t figure out an alternate plan. I asked her could I please<\/em> transfer my existing flight to that L.A. flight instead. Also, since I was traveling with carry-on luggage only, that made this new plan even more practical. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The airline rep did what she could, and thankfully<\/em>, she was able to carry out my request. YAY! I sent off a message to Steve to let him know what was going on and that I’d meet him at the concert. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And so that’s what I did… I flew to L.A., rented a car, then drove to Vegas (with a little bit of speeding along the way). I got there ever so slightly early with just enough time to change my clothes in the venue’s bathroom to something a bit more appropriate for a concert. And then I pretty much got to my seat and met up with Steve right as the concert was starting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Isn’t that insane?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In retrospect, it seems that this insane re-route adventure could have been avoided all together had I listened to that little voice after all. But then again, if I had, I wouldn’t have this crazy story to tell and share with you. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Practice, Time, and Patience <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I’m starting to get better at recognizing that little voice, and sometimes I even carry through with its advice. But I’m still not 100% great at recognizing it and then following through on whatever it has to say. At least I’m improving in that area, and I expect to keep improving over time as I lean more and more into practicing recognizing that little voice and separating it from the other voice in my mind that says, “Oh, that’s just paranoia talking.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Experience tells me that this intuition “thing” is a real phenomenon. It could probably be logically explained away as something else, and that’s fine. But even so, using the word or label intuition<\/em> \u2013 or inner-guidance<\/em> system, or maybe even subconscious<\/em> \u2013 is probably more succinct than any other lengthy label or explanation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatever it is, I think it’s worth paying attention to. All it wants to do is help us along our path, getting from A to B in the most efficient way. Just like any guidance system, there’s a calibration and learning process to go through. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Learning to make sense of my intuition takes practice, so I try to be patient with myself and my learning curve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIntuition is a very powerful thing, more powerful than intellect.\u201d
\u201c<\/em>You have to trust in something: Your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.\u201d<\/p>\u2013 Steve Jobs<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThe intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant.\u201d
\u201c<\/em>All great achievements of science must start from intuitive knowledge. At times I feel certain I am right while not knowing the reason.\u201d<\/p>\u2013 Albert Einstein<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Have you ever encountered interesting circumstances as a result of not listening to your intuition? Or from actually listening to it? If you have, I’d love to hear about it! I welcome you to share your story in the comments. <3<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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